QUALITY OF GOOD BOYFRIEND

=1= Be Honest:. 

*Been honest is very important in being a good boyfriend, learn how to be straight forward let your girlfriend know your dos and don'ts

=2= Always listing to your GF:.

*Don't turn your self to Mr lion to your girl because you want her to know that you are a man, 
always listing to her when she want to talk to you and always be patient with her

=3= Try and know more about your girl:. 

*Always be interested in learning more about your girlfriend. When you’re talking with her or chatting with her online, ask inquisitive questions that may open up into personal discussions—though of course, don’t ask a boring series of long questions, it's not an interview. Have good conversations with her about important memories, childhood experiences, future plans, desires, dreams, and future ambitions.

*Knowing your girl well will help you choose the perfect gifts to give her, plan thoughtful surprises, and perform other gestures that will win her heart because she will be able to tell you really listened. It’ll also save you some trouble by avoiding unnecessary misunderstandings that might have occurred otherwise. You will know your girl more than anyone else, and when the two of you are deeply connected intellectually, it will strengthen the bond of your relationship to such an extent that you will become inseparable. You will be different than her past boyfriends or other male friends because what you share with her is something completely unique, which she won't get anywhere else.

*Remember, you're getting to know her every day and in many different ways, not just through questions and conversations. Study her; know her interests, likes, dislikes, favorites, hobbies, and fantasies.

=4a= Show her Your Good side:.

*For example, give her a gift, but make it thoughtful—something that you know she wants or needs, whether that be books or something related to her field or profession which you know will help her in the long run. Simplify her life that way and in many other different ways. If something is bothering her, then be her rock and solve it for her, and if she mentions something is depressing her, sympathize with her and offer her a caring ear and a shoulder to cry on. Sometimes people just want you to listen instead of just proposing an immediate solution to their problems.

*If you're there when she’s falling asleep, end her day with something sweet, like a forehead kiss, poem, short song, short story with a happy ending, joke that suits her sense of humor, or anything that'll make her dream of you that night. You don't necessarily have to follow this routine, just be creative. In the morning, remember to call her and ask her how she is, then ask her how she slept. Know whether she is feeling sick. Be the first one to do these things, and be thoughtful and considerate towards her. This shows that you care not only about her body, but also about her as a person. Do something special for her once in a while that'll make her remember you when you're not with her.

*Warning: Don't call her multiple times a day. You need to set limits, you don't even need to call her every day. Give her the time to miss you as well.

=4b= let her know what you like and dislike:.

*As you show her your good side try and let her know what you don't want

=5= show her love and surprise her:.

*Prepare something very nice and big for the two of you as a surprise. It can be anything from preparing a lunch or dinner to taking her somewhere exotic or fun; just plan it, then surprise her. For your soul-mate, you want do something that will make her feel special; do things that will make her realize that she’s lucky to have you.

*I.e take her out to a quiet, elegant restaurant for dinner. Then after a nice meal, serve her a dessert in the form of an excellent poem you've composed yourself

=6= Aways encourage her:.

*I.e if she fail doing one thing correctly try and correct her gently not with hanger, and encourage her that she can do better.

*Last but not the list, don't hand out compliments in a way that isn't meaningful—this can make you appear desperate, insecure, or insincere. Instead, wait for a moment that you honestly appreciate, so that when you comment on it, it's important to her. Being too easy or handing out flattering compliments on demand does not challenge her to be her best. Instead, by judicious and teasing in a creative, fun, and loving way—though without being rude at any cost. You'll see that this is what keeps the relationship stimulating and alive

=7= Always Understanding and Patient with Your Girl:.

*If your girl isn’t ready for any intimate activities, understand her and be patient with her. A lot is happening in a girl’s mind when trying to choose a life-long partner; she has to think things through again before accepting the fact that you’ll be her life-long partner. Forcing her to move too quickly or do things she isn't ready to do is harassment and will damage your relationship. Trust me, you have a lot of control about how a girls feels about you if you know women and what makes them fall for a guy. If you were unaware of how to treat a woman, and as a result, you did something to upset her, be the one to apologize and mean it. A large amount of sympathy has to flow from you towards her.

*Instead of trying to force the issue, be patient and let nature handle the rest. Let her come to you when she’s ready, and she will—depending on what you're doing to her or how you're treating her, of course. Everything that you do has an impact, either increasing or reducing your chances with her. Respect her decisions, and she will respect yours as well.

*More than that, she will love you for your patience and consideration. Love isn’t really only about making love to the girl of your dreams. More importantly, you've got to really care about her and be sensitive to her feelings. If you have a moody girlfriend, instead of being angry with her mood swings, just be the man she thinks you are and be the one to calm her down. Strong men aren't impulsive or easily angered, they're the ones who settle things down—in any situation, not just relationship with your girlfriend. Learn to be a man who isn't annoyed easily by people—someone who's very calm in any situation.

=8= Control of Things:.

*You have to take control over your life and your relationship. Be the driver of the world around you. Be proactive. Drive your life instead of letting it drive you.

*Women and girls love a guy who has confidence in what he does. They fall for men who handle things and act according to what needs to be done. Make your life a well-organized one by putting proper programs in your activities and routines. Have definite goals, make a plan of reaching them, and integrate that plan into your daily activities. Accomplish your goals no matter how small they are because they'll give you so much power to handle big tasks in a demanding situations and reach bigger goals. Exude confidence in everything that you do, whether or not you’re together; your confidence has to be abundant and authentic. Take control of your life and everything that surrounds you. When she’s mad, upset, sad, or unhappy with something, know what to do in order to right her mood. When something bad happens, know what to do. Try different things to cheer her up until you get it right. Trial and error is a great teacher. Don’t only be her boyfriend, but also be her guardian and caregiver. When you're in control, you're exuding an energy that is extremely attractive to women and girls of all types, something which she'll turn you into her own personal addiction.

=9=Handle Her Passionately

If you want her to feel the same way about you as you feel toward her, then you've got to express your love passionately not only through words, but also through actions. Let me repeat: action. Learn how to kiss a girl passionately, in a way that it will bring sparks to her body.

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As her man, you must master her body the same way a pianist masters his instrument. Know what turns her on and what turns her off, and make it your mission to satisfy her in every way possible, not only in kissing or making love, but also in other romantic or non-romantic things she enjoys. Experiment until you find a list of things she likes for you to do for her and add them to your repertoire—it's your job to find them.

Do you know the most sexual organ in a woman's body? It's her brain.

To satisfy her in every way possible, you also have to learn her non-romantic passions. What are her interests, hobbies, or desires. Find fun activities she enjoys, then do those with her sometimes, in the way that she wants them to be done!!

=10= Dress well:.

*Enough about her, now we're coming back to you. Ovid once said, “If you want to be loved, be lovable." There’s nothing that makes a man more attractive than his ability to chose the right clothes and appearance to promote his looks.

Looks in a man are largely influenced by his dress and grooming habits. Thus, a little fashion can make you a lot more attractive. Learn to wear well-made clothes that fit your body type and skin tone, and always wear well-tailored clothes. Study the male leads in movies and other celebrities in order to learn a fashion that suits you from head to toe. You don't have to wear the exact same thing as a celebrity; the key is to pick up on their style and to gather as many ideas as possible until you have a stock of them. It's inspiration that you're looking for; do not copy anyone.

Also remember that for clothes it's the quality that counts, not the quantity. Get just a few expensive pieces if you can’t afford too many good quality clothes; don't got for a ton of bulky cheap clothing. Some men have a false belief that looks don't matter when it comes to love; that's naïve. It's because she spent a lot amount of money and time on beauty products, clothing, and fitness that you're attracted to her right now. Why would you think that looks wouldn't factor into a girl's attraction to a man? So be like her and make yourself lovable—in other words, make it easier for her to be attracted to you.

Girls have a remarkable natural ability to scrutinize things objectively, so your girlfriend can tell if your look is classic and expensive or if it is drop-dead cheap from head to toe. She’ll know if you bought your suit from Charlie down across the street or if it’s a Gucci.

One of the other most important things is to make sure you smell good. Be hygienic all the time and use designer fragrances. That's grooming. Shave unnecessary body hair and get a $60 - $80 haircut, one that'll make you stand out from the crowd.

Hey if you're romantic, sweet and all, but if you can't dress, you'll still strike out. It shows that you don't have time to take care of yourself, and if that's the case, how can she be sure that you'll be able to take good care of her in the future?

=11= Be Her Hero in Every Aspect of Her Life:.

*Be the kind of man who looks out for her and is there for her every time she needs you. Be the kind of man who is there to shelter her from the storms & tribulation of life.

*When she’s sick, go to her place/hospital, take care of her, and be beside her sickbed to cheer her up and let her know that she’ll be just fine. When somebody or something is bothering her, stand up for her with confidence and fight for her. Give her the feeling of safety, comfort, confidence, and assurance when she’s with you. Also try to excel in your professional life, so when she is dealing with obstacles to her ambitions and goals, you can be there to inspire her, support her in her interests, and motivate her to pursue her dreams. Give her advice and help her out even if she doesn't ask for it; sometimes girls want you to notice things and help them out without their having to ask for assistance. All this is how a relationship grows and develops; this sort of partnership interaction is what builds invincible bonds between couples.

Warning: Avoid coming off as controlling or manipulative. Do not call her incessantly wanting to know where she is. Also don't be excessively insecure when she’s not with you. Remember that she needs some time alone.

These small things have a big impact in creating or diminishing attraction. When you're well-groomed, she won't ever let you go.

=12= Win the Hearts of Her Loved Ones

*Make sure to also win the affection of the people who are very close to her, whether they are her parents, siblings, other relatives, or friends. the more the better. Why? Two reasons:

You’ll have people who have a say in her life to back you up when you screw things up sometimes. They will be the ones to convince her that whatever you did wasn't intentional and that you still love her.

She will trust you more, since she will know that you’re interested not only in her, but in her company as well. This earns you plenty of points, As a man!!

And talking to her friends, siblings, or parents gives you a different perspective of your girlfriend since you'll know her from different eyes now—you will know what she was like when she was a child and what she was like in school. In short, you will get to know her more in-depth, and that my, friend, is a very important tool to have in your relationship arsenal—it's a cheat sheet for your relationship, because you'll dig up a lot of information about her that will always work on you favor. You can now surprise her with some things that only she and her mother knows, and then she'll be wondering how you found that one out. Or her closest friend will give you a secret weapon to win her heart over once again. Knowing her from her social circle is very important, my friend, so get on it immediately!

All this tips will help you to be her dream feature husband and her best boyfriend EVER.